Some time or the other we all live in a world called 'random' and have many thoughts go around inside our little head randomly all over!..For a couple of weeks my state has been that - very hyper - my thoughts/musings or whatever one wants to call them..are neither too big and extended that I could post it on the blog nor are they too small that I could share on the Facebook as the 'status of my mind right here right now' !!
Some of you might be wondering - why should she first of all have the urge to 'record' it or 'share' it?! ..well, well..I am human and it pinches that people don't know what's on my mind..they have to know!.. We humans don't mind if the other person doesn't care to understand, we mind more when they don't ask us about what is going on in our mind..at least I do...many a times it irritates me when my husband or any 'qualified' member of the family doesn't ask me constantly as to what I think..I am crazy that way, why should I even bother..my thought is mine, I am the only person who can give it the privilage it needs..but again...I am human blah blah..I am insecure in certain ways..we all are insecure about certain things, there are 'levels' of insecurity..that reminds me, Russell Peters in one of his shows was so hilarious..he says everybody is cheap, its just that there are levels..of how cheap one can be..he is 'born hilarious' I must say!! He's so right in every damn thing he says..no wonder he attracts so many critics! And that exactly has been one of my passing random thought this week and that is exactly what is going to be the first point in this post of mine...
1. Its wrong to be frank. That statement is a constant reminder that I should often shut up! I am constantly attracting arguments over the past few days from everybody...and why so, because I am vocalizing what I feel is not right without being diplomatic. Diplomacy has never been my cup of tea and I don't think it will ever be..its not in my blood..my mom is not diplomatic neither are my guardians..everybody who belongs to my 'biological' family tree are not, so how can I inherit such a trait?! Actually its OK to be frank, but the problem we as a family face is - we are all..'abruptly non-diplomatic' , that way we are bad communicators.. nobody knows what one said or is trying to say..they make a very blunt and rude statement and then that's all it is to say.period!! It leads nowhere in nourishing our relationships among ourselves.
2. We all love to shop - my sister and myself perhaps would be the most enthusiastic souls when it comes to shopping. Scorching heat or a heavy downpour, we don't care when its comes to shop something for ourselves and then stuff our respective ever flowing wardrobes! On one such shopping spree, we discovered that - for us the travel part of the shopping experience is what makes it seem like we shopped and had lots of fun.We have all kinds of designer stores, good variety of shops all around our residential colony. But still, we start the engine to drive an hour and go to the city to shop around. We both don't find it worth getting decked up and going to a shop which is hardly a couple of kilometers form our house - Does that not feel stupid! It's somehow true!!
I have too many passing thoughts, but too less a patient person I am to type and record like this.But still, will make an effort to post in more of my passing thoughts - who knows one day a 'brilliant thought' may occur from one of these 'passing thoughts' :)
Some of you might be wondering - why should she first of all have the urge to 'record' it or 'share' it?! ..well, well..I am human and it pinches that people don't know what's on my mind..they have to know!.. We humans don't mind if the other person doesn't care to understand, we mind more when they don't ask us about what is going on in our mind..at least I do...many a times it irritates me when my husband or any 'qualified' member of the family doesn't ask me constantly as to what I think..I am crazy that way, why should I even bother..my thought is mine, I am the only person who can give it the privilage it needs..but again...I am human blah blah..I am insecure in certain ways..we all are insecure about certain things, there are 'levels' of insecurity..that reminds me, Russell Peters in one of his shows was so hilarious..he says everybody is cheap, its just that there are levels..of how cheap one can be..he is 'born hilarious' I must say!! He's so right in every damn thing he says..no wonder he attracts so many critics! And that exactly has been one of my passing random thought this week and that is exactly what is going to be the first point in this post of mine...
1. Its wrong to be frank. That statement is a constant reminder that I should often shut up! I am constantly attracting arguments over the past few days from everybody...and why so, because I am vocalizing what I feel is not right without being diplomatic. Diplomacy has never been my cup of tea and I don't think it will ever be..its not in my blood..my mom is not diplomatic neither are my guardians..everybody who belongs to my 'biological' family tree are not, so how can I inherit such a trait?! Actually its OK to be frank, but the problem we as a family face is - we are all..'abruptly non-diplomatic' , that way we are bad communicators.. nobody knows what one said or is trying to say..they make a very blunt and rude statement and then that's all it is to say.period!! It leads nowhere in nourishing our relationships among ourselves.
2. We all love to shop - my sister and myself perhaps would be the most enthusiastic souls when it comes to shopping. Scorching heat or a heavy downpour, we don't care when its comes to shop something for ourselves and then stuff our respective ever flowing wardrobes! On one such shopping spree, we discovered that - for us the travel part of the shopping experience is what makes it seem like we shopped and had lots of fun.We have all kinds of designer stores, good variety of shops all around our residential colony. But still, we start the engine to drive an hour and go to the city to shop around. We both don't find it worth getting decked up and going to a shop which is hardly a couple of kilometers form our house - Does that not feel stupid! It's somehow true!!
I have too many passing thoughts, but too less a patient person I am to type and record like this.But still, will make an effort to post in more of my passing thoughts - who knows one day a 'brilliant thought' may occur from one of these 'passing thoughts' :)
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